“Present” E: Entertainment

20 06 2008

In the summer when I turned 10 (that’d be 19 years ago for those of you playing at home), I was supposed to see Debbie Gibson and Tiffany at the local amusement park.

Fate, as it ends up, was in the air, along with the thunder and lighting and eventual raining out of the event.

So, in the fall, Dad took me to see…

With special guest

Now, this was back in the day of “Arena Rock” (Generational translation: Bands playing, NOT LIP SYNCING, in sold-out areanas where sports are played.  Elaborate stage shows, fireworks, fire pillars, giant inflatable props, flshing lights…)

And we’re sitting in the only area where we could get tickets, The Nosebleeds.
“Daddy?”
“Yes hun?”
“Why are those guys behind us sharing a cigarette?”
“Uhhhh…”
And I’m sure he came up with some elaborate story about it (it wasn’t a cigarette as much as it was a joint), much like they first time I found a condom.  (“It’s a static bag for my chips for work.”)

Thus, changing the course of my teenage years forever.  I wonder what would have happened if I would have seen Debbie and Tiffany instead… I’d probably have a minivan.





“Present” D: Description of Dad

17 06 2008

Younger Stephanie would often get very frustrated/excited and talk before she thought… I guess she was kinda like OlderStephanie.
To incense, Dad would give me one of his infamous lectures.
“I’m your father, I’m tall, have a deep voice and am a man.  This is your mother, she is shorter, has longer hair and a higher pitched voice.”

We’re ending our conversation and I call him Mom by accident.  “I’m sorry, you’re Dad, you’re tall and have a deep voice…”
“You remember that so well!”





“Present”: B

13 06 2008

Back in the early/mid-1990’s, I was very much into music and spent a lot of time going to concerts.  I was a fan of Sick of it All (New York Hardcore, rrraarrwwrr) and had seen many a mosh pit get ugly.

Dad announces that he’s going to go see White Zombie.  Yes, that White Zombie.  Hey, I never said I had parents that listened to the soft rock station.  In fact, this was a man who’s coping mechanism was to pull our two foot Kenwood speakers within inches of his head and blast “Blizzard of Oz”.  Somewhere there’s a picture of a tiny me lying on his tummy with this exact set up.  (“What’s that?  I can’t hear you over this tinnitus…”)

“Dad…”, I say concerned.
“Stephanie?”, he says mockingly.
“You need to listen to me on this.”
“Okay….”, Says a man who’s last concert may have been Monsters of Rock.
“Leave your wallet in the car.  If you don’t absolutely need your glasses, leave them in the car.  And for the love of god, DO NOT GO IN THE MOSH PIT.”

(For those of you not familiar, here’s a mosh pit.
popcorn
Basically, it’s a group of people running around in opposite directions, flailing their limbs about and crashing into other people.  File it in ‘stupid trends of the 90’s’.)

“Why not?”
“Because, you’re going to get hurt.  DO NOT GO IN THE MOSH PIT.”

Also worth mentioning is that Dad is a big guy.  He’s six foot two (that’s a foot taller then Mom and I) and well, stocky.  In a teddy bear way!
Dad shakes his head, “I can hold my own.”
“I’m serious.  BE CAREFUL!”
And I go to stay at a friends house for the night.
The next morning, I walk in the door to see Dad with an ice pack.
“You got in the mosh pit didn’t you.”  I say, already knowing the answer.
“It must have been ‘pick on the old man day’.”
“No, that’s a mosh pit.  What did I tell you?”
“Not to go in the mosh pit.”
“And what did you do?”
“I went in the mosh pit.”
“And what happened?”
“I got hurt.” he says, sticking out his lower lip.
“And what did we learn?”
“You’re right and I should have listened to you.”